Women do sex for love, men for masturbation

That is so incredibly wrong.

I just watched my first episode of sex and the city, where the protagonist tells she wants to try to have sex like men, without any emotional connection.
And all women wonder why men can do this and they want to feel so special. The truth is no woman is really special to a man, if i would say otherwise, it would be lying.
The attraction mechanism just moves from the body (men) to certain personality qualities (women). But it's the same biological feeling.
So women: this is neediness, not love!
They all think it is love because it is of personality and not of the body. You are your body and your personality, it just seems like a "higher" choice. But Mystery figured it out, these are just traits to improve survival value and thus must be attractive to maintain evolution. If you don't know them, they are besides a lot of others: pre-selection, leadership, protector of loved ones, willingness to emote, etc.

And it is also the same thing with cheating: Quite all women will cheat if their husbands have no integrity, are needy etc (lacking real masculine traits), unless they are overly moralistic. But if they have these traits, women don't need other men! That's the difference, because men will always have the desire for fucking other women. no matter how hot their wife is. It's another thing to bend to this desire of course.

But here's my point:
After the sex, the attachment and neediness of the man has vanished, he has accomplished what he wished for (in former times it was planting the seed). His object of desire was the body and after fullfilment, desire disappears. For women feelings will even INTENSIY because they become attached to the person which seems far more unique than being attached to a body. That's their neediness and it will stay until the relationship breaks apart or the man loses his masculinity.
So neediness is just distributed differently in the first instance.

We have to differentiate between the biological pull and appreciation, appreciation is a step further towards self-actualisation. When I understand it I will post it.