Women's Insecurities and Games, a list

* Emotional outbursts

* Addictions to sexual validation/approval (flirting, cheating, leaking sex energy, etc.)

* Women test us

* They say one thing and mean something else entirely, then they expect you to know this and mind-read them

* They ask pointed or "loaded" questions

* They resist polarity and insist on confusing it with "controlling abuse"

* They pick fights, argue, and cleverly make everything your fault

* They say one thing, and then do another

* They seem to always try to control the relationship, and if you let them, they then hate you for it

* When you act distant, aloof they chase and want you... When you commit, love, and please them they get bored and run


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