"Are you a player?" and other Tests Women use

When a girl asks this question it's probably gone very smoothly for you. To understand many things what women are saying you need some assistance in female psychology and frame control. Women have dynamic social intution what means it's often not WHAT they are saying what matters but what trojan horses are implemented in their questions. Your answers will reveal your attitudes and hidden true self to her which she will analyse to congruence with alpha male behaviour.
To make connections with the last post, if you are in state you will AUTOMATICALLY PASS this one and ANY other test with flying colors without further ado. But if you are not, here is the micro psychology behind it.

"Are you a player?" implies 2 things:
- she's already attracted to you
- she knows that the answer will provide her with additional information. No logical man is able to answer that question with his mind in order to MAKE her feel more attraction, because this can be faked. She will know if you are able to give her that feeling of taking her smoothly into bed.

Whether you act arrogant or take her frame it will tell her that you are NOT THAT of a player.
Framecontrol is important here, she knows that there is no need to step into her frame when you are already a player because players are the men who know how to advance smoothly without talking about "why do you think that" and stuff. Stepping into frames is also a sign of low social status. It would be smoothly to reframe her: "Thank you. You're cool too." This also shows that you exactly know what she's saying, do not excuse for being good with women and you are funny.

What happened to me when I was in state I just said nothing and smiled. This has the same characteristics as mentioned above. You will not get tested AT ALL if you're able to maintain that heart-centred state, because all this creepyness and neediness cannot exist.

Basically women do test you
- when you're needy
- if you hold your frame or step into hers
- if she want to see if you are stronger than her
- or don't make her number one priority in your life
- if you respect yourself
- if you can put up with her crap


Examples would be:
- "i'm afraaaaaaid of getting huuurt"
- "I don't know i don't want to ruin our friendship, because i like you so much"
- she intentionally mismatches with you, to see if you stay in yang energy
- you're beating around the bush and do not make an escalation move, she'll keep you around for validation